How To Not Gain Weight This Holiday Season

How To Not Gain Weight This Holiday Season

Written by: yvonne fricker

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Your 8-Week Journey to learn about Nutritional Balance


  • Week 1: Recognizing Habits
  • Week 2: Nutritional Values
  • Week 3: Protein
  • Week 4: Carbohydrates


  • Week 5: Fats
  • Week 6: Calories
  • Week 7: Cravings
  • Week 8: Balance  

Starting Point


I’ve always felt that not gaining more weight is a great starting point for slimming back down once we’ve become heavy. It’s realistic, it’s doable, and it gives you the confidence that reversing the numbers on the scale is absolutely achievable. When we stop the upward climb, something inside us shifts. We start paying attention. We eat with more awareness, and over time, our bodies slowly find their natural balance again.

I’m 58 years old, 5'9" tall, and I weigh about 145 pounds. I’m not a fitness coach, a diet expert, or a doctor of any kind. I’m a Swiss woman who was raised on nothing but home-cooked meals. The small town I grew up in had no takeout, no pizza, no hot dog or hamburger stands. My mom cooked three meals a day from scratch every single day. And since we didn’t have a dishwasher, the cleanup was shared between us three kids and our mom. But let me not get sidetracked with those small, nostalgic details.

Here I am, some 50 years later, still cooking most of my food from scratch. I’m at a great weight, have no health issues, and I’m a very active person. Most importantly, I’ve never been on a diet in my life. Maintaining a “normal” weight isn’t about dieting. It’s about lifestyle. It’s about recognizing that food should be seen for what it truly is: nutrition, fuel, and energy.

Of course, we all eat for pleasure too. But keeping the “for pleasure” part of eating in balance becomes natural once we change our habits, retrain our taste buds, and start to better understand nutrition. And that, my dear friends, is where I come in on your weight loss journey. I’d like to share what has and still is working for me. Chances are, it will do the trick for you as well.




Recognizing Habits



Before any change can happen, we have to be honest with ourselves about what’s really going on. For me, it’s never been about getting on the scale or counting calories. It’s about noticing how I eat. When do I eat? Why do I eat? Do I reach for snacks when I’m bored, or end up eating junk for dinner because I didn’t prep a meal and I’m too tired to cook?

Once I start paying attention, half the work is done. I make sure to have plenty of good-for-me foods around, some prepped and ready to eat. Instead of grabbing cookies, I’ll reach for fruit. A protein shake replaces that roll of bread with cheese, and often my dinner is just a simple salad because I’m not super hungry after my day is done. Clean food keeps me fueled longer, steadier, and more satisfied, and as a result, eating less for dinner isn’t an issue at all.


Understanding Nutritional Values



In order to get control over our eating habits, we need to understand what’s actually in the food we eat. We’ve all heard about proteins, carbs, and fats countless times, but very few people really know what they do for the body. Once we understand that, eating well starts to make a lot more sense.Nutritional values are simply the way we measure what a food gives us. Certain foods build and repair, some provide quick energy, and others keep us full and steady for hours.


Protein


Proteins are complex molecules made up of smaller parts called amino acids. They’re the body’s main building material, helping us repair tissue, build and support muscles, and keep our organs working properly. Each protein has its own unique job, from carrying nutrients through the body to helping with digestion, energy, and cell repair.

Some foods provide a perfectly balanced mix of amino acids, meaning they give our body everything it needs in one go. Great examples are eggs, fish, chicken, tofu, quinoa, nuts, legumes, and Greek yogurt. When we mix these sources throughout the day, we easily cover what our body needs to stay strong and balanced.


Carbohydrates


Carbohydrates, or carbs, are one of the main macronutrients found in many of the foods and drinks we eat every day. They include sugars, starches, and fiber. Carbs are the body’s preferred source of energy. They keep our brain alert, our muscles moving, and our organs working properly.

When we eat carbohydrates, the body breaks them down into glucose, which is then used for fuel. Whole foods like fruits, vegetables, legumes, and whole grains provide steady energy and valuable nutrients that help the body run efficiently. Just like we wouldn’t put bad fuel into our car and expect it to run smoothly, the same goes for our body. Choosing clean, natural carbs gives us the kind of energy that lasts and supports us throughout the day.


Fats


Fats often get a bad reputation, but they are an essential part of a healthy diet. They give us energy, help absorb vitamins, protect our organs, and keep our skin and hair healthy. The key is to choose the right kinds of fats and keep them in balance.






Calories



Calories measure the energy we get from food. Every bite we eat gives the body fuel to move, think, breathe, and function. When we take in more calories than we use, the extra energy gets stored as fat, hence we gain weight.

I see calories as a helpful guide to understand food better, but I don’t count them. Over time, I’ve learned how to direct my eating by listening to my body instead.



Cravings



Cravings are our body’s way of asking for something it’s missing. In week six of How Not to Gain Weight, we’ll take a closer look at what they really mean and how to use them to our advantage.


Balance



Balance is where everything comes together. Once we understand what our body needs and how food truly works, eating well becomes natural. It’s no longer about restriction or rules but about awareness and choice.

Some days we eat more, some days less. What matters is the overall rhythm. When we focus on good ingredients, move our bodies, and stay mindful, balance happens on its own. If you’re ready to ZEN Yourself a bit deeper and begin to slowly lose some weight, join us for Drop a Pound a Week today.


Isaiah & Yvonne

Frequently Asked Questions

Is this a free program?

Yes, HOW NOT TO GAIN WEIGHT THIS HOLIDAY SEASON is free to all

When does it begin?

We are starting Nov. 6th and the plan concludes Dec. 31st 2025 

Can I jump in at anytime?

Definitely! The entire program is documented right here on our blog.